The Truth About Muslim Marriage
'The Truth About Muslim Marriage' examines whether Britain’s centuries' old marriage laws need to be updated to reflect and better serve today’s multicultural, multi-faith country.
Dr Myriam Francois has a BA in Social and Political Sciences from Cambridge University, an MA in Arab Studies (Honours), specialising in Middle East politics, from Georgetown University, and a PhD from Oxford University. She has lectured at universities worldwide including Harvard, Birmingham, Luther College and Kingston.
Myriam is a Research Associate at the Centre of Islamic Studies (CIS) at SOAS University, where her research focuses on British Muslim integration issues.
Aina Khan is a family lawyer and specialist in Islamic law. She founded the ROM campaign.
Aina Khan on BBC World Service
Click here to listen skip to 33.00
Alan Khan on Woman's Hour
click here to listen skip to 07.35
Petition set up by ROM campaign:
https://petition.parliament.uk/petitions/205526/sponsors/new?token=Bb7UjvR5McXwyzRJRqO9
My petition:
To reform outdated English marriage law, which is no longer ‘Fit For Purpose’
We need to reform the Marriage Act 1949 as it is 70 years out of date. Make it compulsory for every faith to register marriages, not just 3 faiths (Anglicans, Jews and Quakers). 100,000s have no legal rights in an unregistered religious marriage and this figure is rising yearly.
Religious marriages conducted abroad are legally recognised, but UK religious marriages are not. The result? Chaos, injustice and discrimination: - Overnight homelessness, destitution - lost savings invested in ‘matrimonial’ home - No Pension or Inheritance rights - Men, women and children suffer There are no Cohabitation rights - and these couples face a double handicap as they thought they were married. In the 21st century, a fair and equal marriage law needs to cover all faiths.
Methodology: Quantative Market Research Survey.
True Vision Aire and Channel 4 commissioned a survey of 900 Muslim women in the UK. The research was carried out by trained community researchers who were all Muslim women from a range of ethnic backgrounds; age ranges and marital status. They operated in 14 different cities Glasgow, Newcastle, Preston, Bradford, Stockport, Manchester, Stoke on Trent, Leicester, Birmingham, Oxford, Cardiff, London, Bristol, Gloucester, Cambridge.
Survey Summary by Rajnaara Akhtar
Full data set used in the film
Full Questionnaire
KEY FINDINGS:
· 78% of those questioned would like a legally recognised marriage
· 60% of those questioned had a Nikah only ceremony, with no civil ceremony to make their marriage recognised by the law (3 in 5)
· 28% of those who had a Nikah only, did not realise that their Nika ceremony was not legally recognised, and instead thought that they were married with full protection of the law
· Nearly 90% of those who had a Nikah only were not advised by an Imam as to what is required to be married in the eyes of the law
· More than two thirds of those women who had a NIkah only, did not plan to have one in the future
· 10% of those who responded to the survey were in a polygamous relationship, and of those 37% said that they had not consented to it. The vast majority of this 37% who would prefer not to be in a polygamous relationship said that it was done without their knowledge.
· 89% of the total number of women surveyed did not wish to be in a polygamous relationship
KEY INFORMATION:
The 1949 Marriage Act states that in order for any religious body to perform a legally recognised marriage a number of things must happen:
1. The building must be licensed with the local council as a regular place of worship. This means there must be a regular congregation worshipping there. https://www.gov.uk/government/collections/places-of-religious-worship-and-the-solemnisation-of-marriages; https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/places-of-worship-registered-for-marriage
2. The congregation must train somebody from within that congregation to be an official Registrar.
3. The couple must give 28 days notice at the Register Office.
What to do if you are unsure if your marriage is legally recognised:
Check your marriage certificate
– if your marriage was registered abroad, it is recognised in the U.K.
If your marriage was conducted in the UK:
If you were married in a Register Office or had an official Registrar at your ceremony who issued you with a marriage certificate, you should be able to trace the certificate through:
General Register Office
Smedley Hydro
Trafalgar Road
Southport
PR8 2HH
If you have had a Nikah only marriage and no civil ceremony in addition your marriage is not legally recognised in British law.
If you are still unsure or do not have any sort of certificate, then seek legal advice from a qualified family lawyer who is experienced in the status of religious marriages.
CO-HABITATION:
Cohabiting couples are the fastest growing family type in the UK. ONS figures show that between 1996 and 2016, numbers more than doubled from 1.5 million to 3.3 million – accounting for 17.5 per cent of families in the UK and this is set to rise further.
If you live with your partner but are not legally married you do not have the same rights as people who are married when the relationship breaks down.
https://www.mills-reeve.com/our-new-survey-reveals-that-the-myth-of-the-common-law-marriage-leaves-cohabiting-couples-vulnerable-04-05-2017/
USEFUL LINKS:
In England and Wales:
https://www.gov.uk/marriages-civil-partnerships/religious-ceremonies
In Scotland:
In Northern Ireland:
https://www.nidirect.gov.uk/articles/getting-married-religious-ceremony
http://rightsofwomen.org.uk/get-information/family-law/marriage/
http://muslimmarriagecontract.org/contract.html
KEY ORGANISATIONS FOR ADVICE:
Muslim Women’s Network
http://www.mwnhelpline.co.uk//m/
Aanchal Women’s Aid & Muslim Women’s Advisory Council London
National Helpline
0845 451 2547
Muslim Women’s Council Bradford
http://www.muslimwomenscouncil.org.uk/
Muslim Youth Helpline
National helpline
0808 808 2008
Karma Nirvana
UK Helpline: 0800 5999 247
Monday - Friday: 9am - 5pm.
info@karmanirvana.org.uk
OTHER USEFUL LINKS
Register Our Marriage
https://www.registerourmarriage.org
Muslim Divorce Survival
http://muslimdivorcesurvival.co.uk/aboutus.html
Henna Foundation
http://www.hennafoundation.org
Sharan
Some of the campaigners for law reform have set up a petition
https://petition.parliament.uk/petitions/205526
Press UKM
https://www.thetimes.co.uk/article/six-in-10-muslim-wives-not-legally-married-j9r2qvtgm
http://www.radiotimes.com/tv-programme/e/fzqngw/the-truth-about-muslim-marriage/
http://www.channel4.com/programmes/the-truth-about-muslim-marriage
RUNTIME:
48 Minutes
PRODUCER:
Sally Ogden
DIRECTOR:
Anna Hall
EXECUTIVE PRODUCER:
Brian Woods
RELEASED:
2017
Awards
Best Investigation
The Asian Media Awards 2018
Reviews
"Without question the most important documentary of the week...A long overdue call for the civil and religious ceremonies to be combined. "
Mike Bradley, The Observer
"The survey, of 923 women in the UK, was based on responses to community researchers rather than random sampling"
The Sunday Times
"Most women in UK who have Islamic wedding miss out on legal rights"
Aina Khan, The Guardian
"Academic Myriam Francois presents this interesting film about Muslim marriage in the UK....she looks at why this misinformation is so widespread and the problems this causes"
Pick of the Day, The Daily Telegraph
"This isn't a 'say yes to the shalwar kamez' twist on the reality wedding formula, but a sombre look at an issue that affects mainly UK Muslim women, but some secular co-habittees as well"
Pick of the Day, The Guardian
""Children suffer, women suffer, men get away scot free" says one Imam. Britain it seems lags behind most of the world on this matter. "
Pick of the Day, The Times